Sorry :( you must be resigning for good reason though? I know you said a few months ago it was all getting too much.
Then they are not real girlfriends - friends forgive and forget - especially when they know that the road you are walking is a hard one. Be kind to yourself. Hugs from Perth xxx
Why did you resign, Mel? I know you wanted to before, but thought it had been resolved.Not being on the committee does not mean you cannot be involved, however. I choose not to be on the P & C but have just managed to help raise over $3000 for our little school. ;-)
I don't understand how stepping down from a committee alienates your friends who are still on it. If they require you keep that post to remain friends then they are not friends at all. If you can't focus on it then you've done the right thing. I don't understand what's going on in people's minds if they don't like you anymore because of that.
Hmmm. So does that mean that I am NOT a girlfriend? Or that all the fine women who adore you here (and elsewhere) are not girlfriends? We would beg to differ, I'm sure.Start behaving yourself or Mel and I will come grab you in a big Bedford van filled with cask wine and drive you to Perth for shenanigans. (I haven't consulted her yet but I'm sure she's easily led...)Don't push me. You know I'm irrational and fear no consequence.XXX
I wanna come on the cask filled van of shenanigans.
See, it's not that I don't love the girls here (not you though, Ren. If I loved you I'd be cliquey).But I have been a) informed that my internet friends are not 'real' friends and I don't care about them; b)I'm making this all up to get sympathy from them anyway and c) that they don't really want to hear it anymore. Tanya, I resigned because it was all just too much. I have been struggling again with not being able to pick up the phone, get out of the car, leave the house. My depression leaves me utterly unmovitvated and unable to cope with the basics. So I was falling behind on everything and something had to give. Psych suggested this was just one thing that I should let go for a while. Read the update ladies. They surprised me.
Ah Mel, I thought you were feeling a bit better this week, So sorry, I had no idea. Glad they stepped up, it is easy to expect the worst when you are so low. Totally irrelevent, Ren, I thought I was hallucinating when I looked at your address - Madmothership... Wife to one. Mum of two. Annoyance to many.Gold Coast, Scorpio. Had I created an alter ego when on a drunken rampage one night? Had this alternate me posted comments I did not remember posting? So weird, so many coincidences, lol.
Cask wine and shenanigans? Heck sign me up!Mel, innerwebs friends are real, more real than friends who leave you high and dry because of choices you made in the best interests of everyone.I want to hear it.As for making it up, pfft!
I know we're all busy, so the fact you've taken time out of your day to comment and connect with me means so much.xxxxMelissa.