Saturday, 5 May 2012

Remembering

I'm not fine, I'm in pain 
It's harder everyday 
Maybe we're better off this way? 
It's better if we break...
 Maroon 5 - Better if we Break



9 long years ago today, you breathed your last. Your beautiful heart stopped beating. The life left your body. 3 daughters and a son, a beloved daughter in law and 2 sons in law lost their mother. 5 grandchildren lost their amazing Nana. 6 more were born never having felt your kisses. Knowing only photographs and stories of an amazing woman. 2 parents buried their firstborn; a burden I wish upon no-one. 5 brothers, 2 sisters said goodbye to their big sister. Countless in laws and others lost a beautiful friend.

A man lost the love of his life.   None have been the same since. Every one of us is better for having had you in our lives. 43 years is a pittance, but you packed so much into them.

You are missed beyond measure. Loved beyond words. Sleep, you earned release from the pain. We'll carry you in our hearts for now. We will pass down stories of you for generations. Not a one of use will forget.
~Your favourite song~


I love you. Thank you for giving me my life.

I miss you.

Your loving daughter.



Melinda Judith Dawson
17-08-1959 ~ 05-05-2003

10 comments:

  1. Wishing you happy memories of your darling mother on this very sad day

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  2. Much love to you Melissa, I am so sorry for your loss. I know they say time heals but sometimes the pain is just as raw as it ever was. I know when I have those days that the next won't be as bad and I just need to do what I can to get through it. Your mum looked beautiful x

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  3. Thinking of you today Melissa, wish I was there to give you a hug. That is such a wonderful arrangement of the song xx

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  4. Sending you lots and lots of love
    xxx

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  5. Dear Melissa I am thinking of you at this sad time and sending warm comforting hugs your way.I am in the process of seeing my mums body struggling with health and her mind with dementia.I cant breath when I think about it.
    The love you have for your mother is so beautiful it inspires me to be a better mum.Love and hugs xx

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  6. So sorry Melissa, 43 is so young to die and also for you to say goodbye.

    I hope today is peaceful , I am going to light a candle for your mum right now.

    Eva Cassidy has such a beautiful voice.
    (hugs)

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  7. This is so beautiful and my heart goes out to you today lovely. Big hugs and I hope you have the time to let a few tears flow. N xx

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  8. Melissa, this is a beautiful tribute to your Mother. It has been 9 years for me as well and not a minute goes by that I don't miss her or find my heart aching for her. My wish for you today is to find peace and enjoy the beautiful memories that you will always carry in your heart.

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  9. Have been thinking of you this week in the lead up. I know it doesn't get easier but know she is with you always. Hope you've found some peace today with your beautiful family xo

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  10. so incredibly sad for this loss. beautiful posts. your mother sounds like an amazing woman and you carry her with you, which is all you can do.

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I know we're all busy, so the fact you've taken time out of your day to comment and connect with me means so much.

xxxx
Melissa.

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